How To Win A Guy Over - The Way Into His Heart

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How To Win A Guy Over
By: Carlos Cavallo

Over the long hard Road of Romance, there's a good chance you've probably found a guy that wasn't ready to show you how much he wanted to be with you. You know you have to open his heart to you, and all you want to know is how to win a guy over.

And you'd be right to ask. There's a secret to winning his heart, and it's important to know as many ways as possible to get him to open his heart to you.

There are so many things that can keep you apart:

Long distance romance
Family problems
Money problems
You’re in different relationships
If you're going to win him over, you've got to know how to reach him, and his love.

First, let's start with a few of the mistakes women make when they try to win a guy over:

MISTAKE #1: Being too aloof and too distant
I don't see this one as much as I used to. But it's still there.

Some women think that being really cold and bitchy will attract a guy. There are even books that perpetuate this myth.

"Guys desire women who are easy to be around."

- Carlos

The truth is that only a guy who is lacking in self-esteem will latch onto a woman who is stronger willed than him. (You can have all the will you care to. Just notice when your will becomes HIS.)

A man needs you to be warm and nurturing. Don't walk all over him.

And the same goes for you: Don't let him walk all over you like a rug.

MISTAKE #2: Faking your way into his heart
Some women pretended to be interested in his hobbies and pastimes to win him. This is obviously a bad idea.

Mostly because guys can see right through it. A man might get snowed over once in awhile, but he will be able to figure it out if you're just pretending to share his interests.

It doesn't hurt to go along and participate to see if you might be interested.

But if you know you're not, don't say that you are. When he figures out the truth, it will feel like a betrayal.

And he will very likely lose interest because of it.

MISTAKE #3: Giving him the override button
A lot of women go too far by giving guys the power to:

Break her plans to be with him
Or she ignores her girlfriends to spend time with him
And so on...
Sure, you don't want to lose an opportunity to see him. But that doesn't mean you should drop everything you're doing and change plans for him.

In fact, it's very likely that when you tell him NO that it will challenge him even more.

Here's something that most women don't know about guys:

If he really likes you, he's never going to be discouraged because your schedules conflicted.
It actually works the opposite. He will be more interested because you will appear like you have a life. A life he might want to work his way into.

Don't steal that motivation from him by being too easy!

MISTAKE #4: Compromising your integrity for him
One of the simplest ways that women do this is when they allow a guy to be 20, 40, 60 minutes late for a date. They stay silent, for fear of disapproval.

And that is training him to not value you.

When a guy isn't on time, you give him a gentle text message asking him where he is. If he won't be there within 20 to 30 minutes, you call the date off.

Why?

The first reason is you're demonstrating your own value. That you have boundaries and limits. And you command respect.

The second reason is because you have to have self respect first. And you've got to train him to be on time. He must value your time as much as you do.

If you set the stage by letting him mistreat you right off the bat like this, you will get the relationship that you trained him to give you.

MISTAKE #5: Give into him in any way to get him to like you
Letting him have his way all the time is the ultimate way that you compromise your integrity with a man. And you'll destroy any respect he might have for you.

In the same way that you don't let him abuse your time, you never go along with his bullying just because you think he'll stop liking you if you don’t. (*He’ll actually stop liking you if you do give in.)

And if he's using this kind of childish tactic on you, you should probably question whether or not he's a good candidate for your love. You shouldn't be dating little boys who haven't grown up past manipulation like this.

You're looking for a real man who will love you for the rest of your life. AND respect you!

If you want that love, you've got to....

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Carlos Cavallo
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How to win a guy over
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