Why Do Good Girls Like Bad Guys? Why You Want Him (When you shouldn't!)

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Why Do Good Girls Like Bad Guys? 9 Reasons Your Mom Would Never Admit
By: Carlos Cavallo

Have you ever fallen for a bad boy? Almost every woman has felt the attraction for a guy who's a little rough around the edges. And that might make you wonder why do good girls like bad guys?

“So why do good girls like bad guys?

I had this question for a real long time

I've been a bad boy and it's plain to see

So why do good girls fall in love with me?”

Falling in Reverse - “Good Girls Bad Guys”
Movies often highlight this wild dynamic of the woman who falls for the wrong kind of guy. The theme resonates because almost every woman can relate to this.

Every woman has had a man in her life that she just couldn't resist. She may have put up a good act, but in the end she either gives in or runs away.

She might have sensed that heartbreak was the only thing in her future with him.

And she was probably right.

But what a delightful distraction a Bad Boy can be!

Just look at Hollywood and the interesting combinations of personalities there. Perhaps the most classic example of good girl/ bad guy was Billy Bob Thornton and Angelina Jolie back in the 90s.

I'll warn you that you need to be prepared to look at your shadow-self here today. I'm going to point out parts of your behavior that you may not want to agree with. But that doesn't mean they're not true.

The bad guy that women love is not politically correct. Which is why you don't want to admit you have an attraction for them!

And also consider that you wouldn't admit these facts about bad boys and your attraction to them because of how they would make you look if you admitted them to other people! So you keep this secret - shhhhh! (Most women do.)

Now, this article comes to you as a bit of an expose. You see, I was once one of those bad boys. And having spent many years dating women, I can tell you exactly why good girls fall for bad guys.

First of all we have to start with a definition of what is a bad boy? What makes a guy “bad”?

Bad Boy Quality #1: He’s a manly dude…
It's pretty obvious when you encounter a bad guy like this that he is definitely not a wimp. If anything he oozes testosterone and Manliness. You can practically smell it on him.

In fact, you probably can - most colognes change their scent depending on your hormone levels. Bad boys who wear certain colognes almost always smell different than the average Joe who wears them. That's why you can find the scent appealing on some guys and not on others.

But besides this, you know that his way of being more of a man instantly sets him apart from the other guys you're dating - or guys that you know.

Bad Boy Quality #2: He’s not a wimp…
This quality is sometimes best described as being BOLD.

A bad boy has a way of being more forward and direct with his interest and what he says to you. Whereas a more “beta guy” will hold back what he's thinking, and be more of a people pleaser. Which you know means he may not have the courage to back up his actions, or to protect you later on.

In fact, you can describe a bad boy in terms of how much he is not like “The Nice Guy.”

If you've ever caught yourself saying “but he's so nice” you know what I'm talking about here. You're trying to justify dating some dude who just doesn't light your Christmas tree. and as much as you wish you could convince yourself, you know you never will. You just know this guy doesn't have a very long shelf life with you.

Bad Boy Quality #3: He makes you feel safe
When it comes right down to it you know that the bad guy will make you feel safe. Because you know he's capable of physical action to protect you. Even if it means this guy likes to start fights, there's a part of you it gets a little turned on by it.

He's more of an alpha male. And that definitely gets your hormones racing.

Mostly because these guys are hard to find these days...

Bad Boy Quality #4: He’s more aloof
One of the less healthy traits is that a bad boy is often emotionally detached and distant.

This creates a challenge for you, which makes you invest yourself and your time in him.

Most women don't want to admit this, but most men are naturally attractive in this way. Most guys simply don't emote very much, and they don't talk about their feelings all the time.

So in a way, most men have ...

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