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Communication In A Relationship - 9 Tips To Reach Your Man
By: Carlos Cavallo
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Any woman who has been in a relationship knows that communication is one of the most important things. In fact, if you don't have communication in a relationship, you don't really have a relationship.

But how do you communicate with guys? Men can seem so difficult to talk to.

The funny thing is, to men, women seem difficult to communicate with. Each gender sees the other as hard to talk to.

How do you communicate and get him to understand you?
How do you get your needs met?
When you know how to communicate with a guy, you will not only be able to make your relationship as strong and loving as you want, you will also find that you can get all your needs met. And then some.

Remember: Miscommunication creates distrust and disconnection.
Which is why it is so important to work on your communication as much as possible with your partner. It's not just a cliché, it's the most important truth of relationships.

Why is communication in a relationship so important?
This may qualify as one of the most obvious questions, but you still might not know the answer to it.

Just a short list of some of the problems you can have if you don't have good communication:

More fights and arguments
Less physical intimacy
More feelings of separation and anxiety
More feelings of emotional disconnection
More heartache and insecurity
More cheating
More breakups and short relationships
In fact, if your communication is not where it needs to be with your peers, you could also experience a lot of health issues. Communication is so important to your success in life that you should probably be working on it almost every single day of your life.

What is Communication In A Relationship?
Well, my definition of communication is:

COMMUNICATION: The simple skill of expressing your ideas to another person, and having that person understand your message - and you.
Mind you, "simple" does not mean easy. In fact many people find communication one of the most challenging things in a relationship.

Let's talk about a few of the -

Common Communication Problems
As you may have realized, no one ever sat you down and taught you how to be an amazing communicator. You have to want to learn this skill.

But when you do gain the skill of communicating with a guy on his level, there's nothing else like it in the world. Your relationship will run on autopilot. (Well, mostly.)

COMMUNICATION PROBLEM 1: Not communicating
This may sound like an obvious observation, but in truth most people tend to avoid communicating as much as they can. Especially around difficult or uncomfortable topics.

Unfortunately, most relationships need to have a lot of conversation about uncomfortable topics. There's no escaping it.

And if you happen to have a relationship with a guy who is already closed off with regard to his emotions, you may find it even more difficult.

One word of warning here: Be careful about expecting your man to be as emotionally communicative as you. It's just not going to happen.

And if it did, you would probably get tired of it really quick.

Just because men don't communicate as frequently about their emotions doesn't mean they are “emotionally shut down.” Or emotionally broken.

Yes, some men don't have any real connection to their emotional intelligence. But these days, many do.

Men and women have different brains. Contrary to what the media would like to have us believe sometimes, men and women are simply different in many respects.

So, compared to a woman, a man is always going to seem emotionally shut down. Even if he's perfectly fine.

Beware using female standards to evaluate men. It will never help you.
And very often, it will mislead you.

COMMUNICATION PROBLEM 2: Expecting him to read your mind
This one is very specific to relationships. But it's a well-known joke that women often expect a man to pick up on her emotional state - without her explaining it.

Here's where the conflict gets really juicy.

If you expect a man to read your mind, you know what you're going to get.

Disappointed.

He doesn't want to -

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Communication in a Relationship
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