Forceful Pursuit Causes Rejection

Why continually being focused on where you stand with a woman you are dating will cause your actions to be forceful and over pursue a woman to the point where she gets turned off and doesn’t want to see you any more. How to avoid coming off as creepy and stalkerish, when you are trying to attract a woman who seems to be pulling away from you.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss two different emails from two different viewers who are guilty of being too forceful in their pursuit of women they are trying to date. The first email is from a viewer who met a woman in a bar randomly one night. He did a good job of hanging out, having fun and hooking up back at his place the first night they met. She obviously really liked him at first. However, he started to over pursue and tried to force himself into her life. She eventually blew him off. Recently, he met up with her to talk, but things did not turn out as he had expected and hoped. The second email is from a viewer who has been dating a woman for about seven months. She says she’s in love with him and always spends time with him when he asks, but he is unsure of their future together. He asks me how he can approach this subject to get some clarity on where he stands and still have her perceive him as being masculine.

“There are two fundamental ways that you can live your life and make your grandest dreams a reality: 1) Using force to get what you want – this usually involves being in a fearful state and trying to force everyone and everything that you want in your life to be in your life. 2) Using power to get what you want – this involves taking action and moving towards what you want, but looking to make sure that the people and circumstances that you want, also want you. Power assumes and predisposes that it is simply a matter of time before the right people and circumstances show up and effortlessly manifest in your life. Therefore, people who use power to get what they want, understand that continuing to circulate, change their approach and taking action, eventually will lead them to get exactly what they are looking for. Power is the path of least resistance. Using force is equivalent to trying to swim upstream. You may eventually get to where you want using force and excessive effort, but you will be incredibly frustrated, tired, angry, disappointed and it will take you a lot longer to get there than is necessary.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

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