Make Your Life A Drama Free-Zone

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How to make your relationship a drama-free zone if your current lover has a toxic or interfering ex who simply will not go away, and is constantly trying to ruin and break up your relationship so they can get them back for themselves, but your current lover tolerates this annoying and frustrating interference by still talking to them.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a female viewer whose current boyfriend of six months is still friends with his exes. Normally this would not be an issue, but the problem is his most recent ex before they got together and started dating. The ex thinks that she stole him from her and has been trying to break them up ever since they got together. His ex has shown up unannounced at his home and places where he frequents. His ex will sit with him when she is not around and take selfies that she then posts to social media suggesting that she had a great time with him. His ex is constantly texting him and blowing up his phone with inappropriate messages. She has over-heard him and his ex arguing on the phone several times and she wonders why he puts up with this. She has asked him to delete this particular ex from his life for good, but he refuses and says that she is controlling and insecure. She asks what I think she should do.

“Making the decision to make your life a drama-free zone is one of the best decisions you can make for your life and your relationships. You should delete toxic friends and former lovers who can’t or won’t let go of the past and move on. You should only become involved with friends and lovers who have a drama-free life as well. If you start dating someone and they have a toxic ex who simply will not go away and tries to interfere in your relationship, but your lover tolerates their presence and interference, then you should tell them that out of respect for you and your relationship that the toxic ex must go. If they refuse or accuse you of being insecure and controlling, you should simply remind them that your life is a drama-free zone and you will not tolerate disrespect or toxic people. After you lovingly communicate what your standards are, what you expect and if they still refuse to budge, the only option is to leave the relationship and find someone who understands it is not loving or respectful to expect you to tolerate this nonsense. Life is too short.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

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