Dating: Texting, Calling & Messaging

Why you should only use the phone, texting or messaging to set dates and how making the mistake of being constantly available to message and chat makes things boring, predictable, unattractive and leads to getting stuck in friends zone and never getting together in person.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who is only twenty years old. He asks about his generation and how women his age tend to always be messaging and texting constantly. He believes that unless he is available to text and chat digitally all the time, that women will lose interest in him. He also admits that too much messaging and chatting on smart phones and social media lowers attraction. He says that constant worthless chatting and texting leads to boring and pointless conversation. His real problem is that he is addicted to messaging, insecure, fearful and worried that if he is not constantly available to chat, women will lose interest in him and simply text another guy, and he will lose his chance.

“It’s a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. Women like guys who are mysterious, interesting and more difficult to figure out, and tend to lose interest in guys who are always available 24/7 to chit chat, message and talk on the phone. Men should be busy with their mission and purpose in life, not sitting around waiting to spring into action to be a woman’s therapist or digital pen pal when she gets bored. Women need time and space away from a man to understand, contemplate and grow their feelings of attraction for him. Men should only use the phone, texting or messaging to set dates, not give out information or to get to know someone. When they violate this principle they predictably get friend-zoned. Act like her fun, charming and mysterious lover, not her friend or buddy when your interest is romantic.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

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