Dating: Take It Day By Day

Why you should take your dating interactions on a day-by-day basis by living in the present moment and not get caught up in thoughts about the future and whether or not it will turn into a relationship.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who says he has always been good with women. He is thirty-one, successful, makes good money, travels for a living and meets many beautiful women in the “target rich” environment of South Miami Beach Florida. He had a long-term relationship when he was younger and thought he had women all figured out. About three months ago he met a twenty-five year old gorgeous career minded successful woman. In the beginning she did most of the pursuing, was all over him, talking about their future together, wanting to meet his family, etc. She would even tell him about all the other guys who were hitting on her. After about six weeks he stopped living in the present moment and started worrying about their future together. She started backing away to the point that she completely started ignoring his messages, but he continued his contact barrage until he finally told her he was out since she was not making any effort. She had the gall to tell him that she had not heard from him very much and essentially blamed him for the fact things were going nowhere. He asks my opinion on how he can turn things around.

“The average guy when he notices that a woman he is dating is backing away, losing interest, making less and less of an effort and generally becoming unavailable, incorrectly assumes that he needs to do something or do more to get her attention so she will spend more time with him. This is called the “Illusion Of Action.” The reality is that when you notice a woman making less of an effort, losing enthusiasm to see you and being evasive when it comes to making plans to get together, is that you should stop making any more effort to get together by backing off and waiting to hear from her. Scarcity creates the perception of value. As long as she has not become completely turned off and lost interest, she will eventually reach out to you. When and if she does reach out, you should simply make the next date. Men who don’t back off and continue their over-pursuit will eventually get friend-zoned, blown off or ignored completely. When you love, value and respect yourself, you will never try to keep someone who makes no effort to keep you.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

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