How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work - RIGHT NOW

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How To Make A Long Distance Relationship Work - Secrets To Success
By: Carlos Cavallo

A long-distance relationship can be one of the most challenging situations for dating. If you want to know how to make a long distance relationship work you gotta know what most women don't know!

There are a lot of barriers to keeping a long distance relationship healthy. A lot of people don't believe that long-distance relationships can work.

The truth is that long-distance relationships can work just as well is a regular relationship. And with so many people working from home and from far away, it's more likely that your next relationship will be a long distance relationship.

As I like to say, any relationship can work - IF you MAKE it work.

One of the best rewards of a long-distance relationship is that you really can't take your partner for granted. You wait so long just to see them and hold them, that you appreciate them much more.

I recently put together a master class program to help any woman make a long-distance relationship work with a man.

In celebration, I want to share a few tips with you that can help you make your relationship with him work no matter how far away from him you are.

First of all what is a long-distance relationship?
It's really any relationship where you are more than a couple hours from your partner. Where you have a significant time or distance barrier to getting together.

When I lived in the San Francisco Bay Area, I dated a few women who were close to San Jose. While those two cities are not terribly far apart, Bay Area traffic made the distance pretty huge. Sometimes it would take a couple hours to get there.

So take a look at your situation and consider that if it is inconvenient to get together, or you are unable to get together more than once per week, you may have a long distance relationship.

Let's share some secrets about making a long-distance relationship work...

Secret #1: Believe It Can Work
It may be hard to believe your relationship can work. You may have tried a long-distance relationship in the past and had it fail.

On the other hand, you may have tried and come close to succeeding.

The very first step has to be to generate your faith in this relationship.
Of course your belief won't guarantee it will succeed. But if you don't have faith in the relationship it will be very hard to make things work.

If you have reasons that you're scared or insecure about the relationship, you should take some time to write those reasons down. Journaling is an excellent way to exorcise your fears.

And also check in with him. Make sure he has faith in the relationship as well.

If you have the right tools and the right skills, it's actually not difficult to make a long-distance relationship work.

Secret #2: Don't Go Overboard
What I mean by overboard is that you don't want to focus too much on this relationship just because you're far away from each other.

Sometimes we over-work and pay too much attention to a long-distance relationship. You really don't need to spend any more time on it than you would if you were dating somebody just across town.

Be aware when your insecurities show up and complicate things, as well. (I'll talk about this more in the next secret.)

For now, check in with yourself and with him to make sure that you aren't being too focused on this relationship.

Secret #3: Tame Your Crazy
Insecurities can drive you nuts when you're in a long distance relationship. When all you have is time to think and ruminate, sometimes we let our imaginations run wild.

We imagine scenarios of infidelity or losing the connection and our attachment. It stirs up a lot of childhood wounds and fears. This is why it's a good idea to make sure you -

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