Her: Friends With Benefits? Him: No Thanks
What you should do if the woman you are dating wants to be friends with benefits, but you want a relationship.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a former soldier from The Land Down Under, Australia. He met a woman who was a DJ and because he was an avid surfer, she wanted to learn from him. She offered to teach him how to be a DJ. They started hanging out frequently and eventually started sleeping together. After a few weeks of hooking up he started developing strong romantic feelings and wanted a relationship, but she only wanted to be friends with benefits. He told her no thanks and said he couldn’t continue sleeping with her without a relationship. Initially, this made her chase more and try to seduce him. He kept refusing, but now that he wants to sleep with her again, it’s not progressing anywhere. He asks what he should do to get the romance back.
“A man’s actions must be congruent with his words in order for a woman to trust his masculine core enough to submit to him and follow his lead. If he is not, she will feel unsafe and uncomfortable and back away to test his strength. If he continues to fail her tests of his strength, she will back away even more, become aloof, confused and lose romantic interest in him. Men must love women in such a way that they feel free to come and go. A man can reestablish romantic attraction by becoming consistently congruent with his words and actions, and by also continuing to give her the freedom to come and go as she pleases. As long as he remains indifferent to her being near or far away from him, eventually she will feel so strongly for him, that her favorite place to be is close to him.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
Click the link below to read the article “Her: Friends With Benefits? Him: No Thanks” on my website:
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