Caught Spouse Cheating: Why It's An Opportunity?

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With every crisis there comes an opportunity. Opportunity to correct things or make things substantially better.

A severe crisis like an affair will give you an opportunity to rebuild trust or even take the relationship to new heights.

The sad part is, that couples rarely seize this opportunity because 90% of them get it wrong.

They themselves create an obstruction in the path to recovery.

As soon as betrayed discover their partner’s affair they are forced to be on a journey. The long journey in search of truth.

This journey determines the fate of the relationship.

Let us take part in this journey to understand:

What has happened?

Why did he betray me?

What is so great about this other woman?

Does she have big boobs?

Is she a sex goddess?

Everything about this other woman strikes at the heart of Betrayed’s biggest fear. Although it makes sense to have an affair with an attractive woman that is not the case every time. This other woman may look ugly in comparison to the betrayed spouse.

When there is no reason to cheat then the situation is quite bizarre.

There are only questions and no answers.

And there is only one source that can provide you with the answer.
“The Cheater”

But the problem is cheaters are so easily accessible but their answers seem like a hidden treasures. It feels like you have to crack the Da Vinci code to get access to the information.

Cheaters have some serious reasons for keeping affair details secret. We will discuss these reasons in our upcoming videos.

…but what can’t be denied is that they have committed a terrible crime by not revealing the truth.

Even without crucial information, betrayed knows that Cheaters have crossed the line. But they can’t figure out “ How far did they go?”

As betrayed gets robbed of the truth, they have only one option left. Make a guess about the situation.

That’s why they start to imagine every situation. Let me tell you these imaginations goes wild. In their head, things are worse than reality.

This means Cheaters are the bigger culprit for fewer crimes committed.

As each hour passes by she gets exhausted with these wild imaginations. She needs truth urgently.

Now let us look at;

“Why does truth matter so much?” to the betrayed spouse.

Affairs are like an earthquake. It shakes and destroys the foundation of marriage. The problem with the betrayed spouse is that she does not know the magnitude of the damage.

She doesn’t know where she stands. Is she at the edge of the cliff? or Is she a little behind? All the beliefs about him are now turning out to be a lie. The new reality is in direct contradiction with those previous beliefs.

In the absence of truth, she can’t perform recovery work also. You need to be aware of your problem before you strive for the solution.

It’s extremely hard to live a life full of uncertainty.

Recovery could have been a lot smoother if Cheaters reveal the truth from the very beginning

Some of you can argue that Cheaters are hiding the truth to protect their spouse but that is far from reality. It represents something much bigger. This act of keeping affair details secret may be happening for a specific reason.

There may be a covert alliance with the other woman to continue the affair indefinitely.

Cheaters are deluded into thinking that they can remain in the status quo. It helps them to enjoy the best of both worlds. They want to be in this situation forever but betrayed doesn’t like this. They see it as a deception.

A deception that doesn’t seem to end anytime soon.

The result:

Pain becomes unbearable for the betrayed spouse. It’s extremely hard to forgive when you feel stupid for believing their lies every time.

A poll showed that 72% of betrayed recovered from sexual activity in the affair before they recovered from the fact that they were deceived.

Revealing secrets is such a massive opportunity when it comes to rebuilding trust. As they say, you’re as sick as your secrets.

We only reveal our secrets to our loved ones only. We never share secrets with a stranger.

Keeping affair details secret means cheaters never saw betrayed as future life partners.

The thing is:

Cheating provides an opportunity but 90% of couples get it wrong because it indicates a massive hole in a marriage that went unnoticed. Or they already knew but ignored it. They never thought things would go this bad.

Things can improve and will improve if couples commit to working to rebuild their marriage. This journey of rebuilding becomes easier if you’re aware of the context.