why I don't have women friends

What you don't know, you don't know

While editing, I realized that there's plenty that I'm not aware of.
Just because I chose to spend my time with the wrong women, doesn't mean that having women friends, as a woman is a bad thing.
I am aware that I don't really come across as clear as I am imagining,
I'm working on that.

But also just because it happened to me, doesn't mean that it's not common, or a flaw in human nature.
The main point of this video is that humans like to escape from responsibility (I identify as a human)
thus they will spend their time with anyone and everyone that will make them "feel" good,
for the time being.

And like everything in life, if we don't become the person we could potentially become,
we'll atract and engage with the type of people that will mirror our self respect, self love and values.
It's rare when someone has dealt with themselves and ends up surrounded by people not worth having around

In my experience, taking a break from on-going "friendships" and socializing, and voluntarily exposing oneself to solitude is the first step in recognizing that you have issues,
what those issues are,
and having the time and complete focus to find out how to fix them.

If you're lucky enough to have a partner to guide you, that's god given generosity,
but nevertheless, only in the silence I found answers.

Hope this made it clearer x

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